You’ve already caught his eye and
attention; he’s pursued you and now you have been going steady since a
few months. And now that the ‘couple’ tag has crept in, you want to make
sure the guy stays for the long haul as you really think that he’s the
one. Flirting with the man you really like will renew his interests in
you and make will make you an irresistible catch in his eyes. Here’s
how to do it right.
Be yourself: A guy
doesn’t find anything else hotter than a girl who is sure of herself and
asserts her likes and dislikes. So just be yourself, sans pretentions;
don’t dig into a plate of chicken just because your guy likes
non-vegetarian food. He’ll be floored for sure.
Sweet nothings: Believe
us, guys like sweet nothings too! Going close enough to them to say
something like ‘you make my head spin’ or something more naughty like
‘you’re a great kisser’ will make him blush too.
Compliment: Like his
dressing sense, tell him; think he has a cute smile? Let him know. Guys
like compliments too. Giving him compliments will let him know how much
he means to you.
The charmer, not the wife:
Two-three months into the relationship, women start feeling like the
naggy girlfriend. Stop right there. Instead of sulking if he doesn’t
call you or answer your texts, relax, keep yourself busy, do things that
you enjoy the most in your company, make plans with girlfriends and
show him you have a life- he’ll soon be showering you with attention and
admiring you for the diva you are!
Let him walk in on you watching/reading naughty stuff:
We women like looking at naughty things too, right? So just put on some
naughty videos or read a naughty magazine and let him walk in you doing
so. It will surely surprise him and increase his interest in you.
Coo at hot lingerie displayed at a store: Go
window shopping with your guy, ogle at hot lingerie displayed, walk off
like nothing happened. He’ll soon want to see you in some of that for
sure. He may even buy you some; wink, wink!
Bring out the tomboy side in you: Ok, so guys dig our nakhras,
but guys also dig it when you can be as cool as his guy friend around
him. No hang ups, casual talk and more brownie points if you read up on
some football/cricket and talk about the sport. What’s hotter? Plan a
fun date where you laze on the couch drinking beer, make sure you’re
wearing hot pants and a jersey.
Play kiddish games:
Men like it when women can be silly- play kissish games like thumb
wrestling, shadow or even join the dots or an x and o. It’s simple fun
and doesn’t involve much thinking.
Accuse him of flirting with you (turn the tables):
He gave you a casual compliment like- that’s a nice dress? Put on an
erotic tone and accuse him of flirting with you. That will make him
conscious but will egg him to flirt with you even more.
Tease a bit: Move
close to him, but don’t kiss; give him a quick rough kiss at a movie and
go back to watching it innocently. Be a tease, it will leave him
wanting more of you.
Wear sexy clothes: This
is obvious- wear tops that help you show a cleavage, a really short
skirt or even a backless dress. Men are in completely awe of women who
are comfortable with their bodies.
Don’t be shy to tell him your needs: Use
a seductive way to tell him anything you want- eat, sleep, get some
water, even go for a walk. He’ll love the fact that you can make
anything sound so erotic.
Use their full name: Calling
someone by their full first name will give you a sense of control. And
the sound of you using his full name to address him will make him feel
wanted and turned on. He’ll be charmed by your confidence.
The attentive listener:
Acknowledge everything your guy wants to talk to you about. Even if it
about a football game he’s just watched and wants to tell you about it,
smile appreciatively and nod occasionally; it never fails.
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