Is he just not that into you? Top 10 ways to spot if the guy you are going out with is actually in love with you without an agenda…

Is he just not that into you?

Top 10 ways to spot if the guy you are going out with is actually in love with you without an agenda…



1 He likes to flaunt you in front of his friends: The idea might flatter you for a while, but then remember... you would not like to be a mere accessory (no matter how valuable) for the guy you are dating. He just probably wants to up his coolness quotient by showing everyone that he has managed to win over a hottie.

2 He is highly demanding: He is less forgiving and barely accommodating. He cannot take it if you say no or turn him down. He wants you to be up for all his plans, meet and greet all his friends but will not do likewise.

3 He refuses to talk: For him, the only possible solution to all issues is 'kiss and make-up', literally! He cannot wait to sleep with you and expects you to ignore all flaws.
4 You know the emotional connect is missing: The two of you together may have a great sexual chemistry, but somewhere in the back of your mind, you do know and you do miss the emotional romance. You want to sit and have comforting talks while he just doesn't see the need for it.

5 He needs space, so he says: Please do not fall for this. It is the lamest excuse that a guy can perhaps come up with. He wants to withdraw and you better act upon it rather than choosing to dust things under the carpet.

6 He changes plans at the eleventh hour: You are no priority for him. He has no qualms ditching you at the last minute for his other plans.

7 He avoids family get-togethers: He makes random excuses to avoid any kind of family occasions that you invite him for. Neither does he call you for any social occasions in his family.

8 He doesn't feel the need to keep you posted about his whereabouts: He acts irresponsibly but he does not accept it. He goes around making plans without keeping you in the loop. Or perhaps makes plans without keeping you in the loop.

9 You feel like he's a different person in private and in public: You feel that something's missing and maybe you'll end up questioning yourself. But be sane and see through, is our advice.

10 He has a roving eye: While you expect him to be committed as the relationship progresses, he instead starts showing withdrawal symptoms.

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