What's on your man's mind when he's in bed with you?
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Several surveys reveal that
women spend a minimum of two hours getting ready, preening in front of
the mirror and putting on their best before stripping down on bed. But
what goes on in your man's mind when he's holding you closer? Do your
flaws bother him? Or is he so into you that he doesn't
even notice them? Here are few things that most men agree to noticing in
a woman, and four things they swear they don't pay attention to, while
indulging in some action between the sheets.
WHAT HE DOESN'T CARE FOR:
SCAR, STRETCH MARK OR CELLULITE
Men don't want you to look for cover or make the room dark just so you can cover up a scar or hide a stretch mark. Also, they don't mind if you have a little flab or wobbly belly because many like to hold on to some flesh as well. Sahil Sankalp, a fashion photographer, says, “Every time I see the stretch mark on my wife's belly , I'm reminded of the pain she endured to bring a new life on earth. It's a sign of her strength, her endurance.I'm proud of the fact that she didn't opt for a tummy tuck or other procedures to get rid of the scar of childbirth.And I tell her the same.“
MANICUREPEDICURE MAKEUP
Honestly , none of those will even register on your guy's mind when the primary focus is on action between the sheets.Rachna Manik, an entrepreneur, says, “My husband has zero idea about what purpose manicures and pedicures serve. He can't even say if I wear my expensive matte makeup which I bought in London.He prefers it if I just wash my face and apply a little moisturiser before snuggling up to him. Sometimes, I think investing in makeup is a sheer waste.“
FANCY LINGERIE
Frilly, seamless, wired, padded, push up, single piece, colour coordinated.Who cares? Especially when the idea is to strip out of every piece of clothing?
BODY HAIR AND MORNING BREATH
So what if your legs are not freshly waxed or your underarm still has some stubble? Even men don't trim their beard or get rid of chest hair always.Says Sahil, “As long as it doesn't get in the way , men don't really notice when was the last time you poured some hot wax on yourself. Of course, we do appreciate it when you take the time and pain to clean up. It's an indication you want the romp as much as we do.But, having stubble on the body is not a crime.“ And morning breath? He has it. So do you. Why make a fuss for a little snuggle and a peck after waking up just because of that smell. Get set for round two, we say!
WHAT HE CARES FOR:
EYES
No, it's not the eyebrows or the lined lashes that he's interested in. It's the expression in your eyes that keeps a man going. Dr Kunal Kulkarni, andrologist, says, “Zoning out in the middle of the action shows how much you are into the act of lovemaking. Instead of looking right through him or staring at the bedpost, lock eyes with him. Keeping your eyes shut is also a sign that you are enjoying the action.“
HANDS
Men see where your hands are when getting intimate. Holding the pillow is fine, but wellness expert Priyanka C says that tracing your fingers along his body contour might just get him excited.She says, “Digging your nails into his skin, holding his back, hugging... these are sure signals of how much you are involved. And these little things matter to them.“
INITIATIVE, INNOVATION AND EAGERNESS
Your man will obviously be excited if you teach him a trick or two in the bedroom. Dr Kulkarni says, “Men would be worried if their wives girlfriends just lie on their back and let them do all the work. Also, it makes them wonder if something's wrong. A little bit of initiative and enthusiasm is something that every man craves for. There are more than a few hundred positions that one can try out. No man has ever said no to learning on the bed.“
BREATH
Nope again, we are not referring to the smell, but the breathing pattern. The way you breathe, the way you speak and whisper, the way you moan and scream -your man cares for these.
SCAR, STRETCH MARK OR CELLULITE
Men don't want you to look for cover or make the room dark just so you can cover up a scar or hide a stretch mark. Also, they don't mind if you have a little flab or wobbly belly because many like to hold on to some flesh as well. Sahil Sankalp, a fashion photographer, says, “Every time I see the stretch mark on my wife's belly , I'm reminded of the pain she endured to bring a new life on earth. It's a sign of her strength, her endurance.I'm proud of the fact that she didn't opt for a tummy tuck or other procedures to get rid of the scar of childbirth.And I tell her the same.“
MANICUREPEDICURE MAKEUP
Honestly , none of those will even register on your guy's mind when the primary focus is on action between the sheets.Rachna Manik, an entrepreneur, says, “My husband has zero idea about what purpose manicures and pedicures serve. He can't even say if I wear my expensive matte makeup which I bought in London.He prefers it if I just wash my face and apply a little moisturiser before snuggling up to him. Sometimes, I think investing in makeup is a sheer waste.“
FANCY LINGERIE
Frilly, seamless, wired, padded, push up, single piece, colour coordinated.Who cares? Especially when the idea is to strip out of every piece of clothing?
BODY HAIR AND MORNING BREATH
So what if your legs are not freshly waxed or your underarm still has some stubble? Even men don't trim their beard or get rid of chest hair always.Says Sahil, “As long as it doesn't get in the way , men don't really notice when was the last time you poured some hot wax on yourself. Of course, we do appreciate it when you take the time and pain to clean up. It's an indication you want the romp as much as we do.But, having stubble on the body is not a crime.“ And morning breath? He has it. So do you. Why make a fuss for a little snuggle and a peck after waking up just because of that smell. Get set for round two, we say!
WHAT HE CARES FOR:
EYES
No, it's not the eyebrows or the lined lashes that he's interested in. It's the expression in your eyes that keeps a man going. Dr Kunal Kulkarni, andrologist, says, “Zoning out in the middle of the action shows how much you are into the act of lovemaking. Instead of looking right through him or staring at the bedpost, lock eyes with him. Keeping your eyes shut is also a sign that you are enjoying the action.“
HANDS
Men see where your hands are when getting intimate. Holding the pillow is fine, but wellness expert Priyanka C says that tracing your fingers along his body contour might just get him excited.She says, “Digging your nails into his skin, holding his back, hugging... these are sure signals of how much you are involved. And these little things matter to them.“
INITIATIVE, INNOVATION AND EAGERNESS
Your man will obviously be excited if you teach him a trick or two in the bedroom. Dr Kulkarni says, “Men would be worried if their wives girlfriends just lie on their back and let them do all the work. Also, it makes them wonder if something's wrong. A little bit of initiative and enthusiasm is something that every man craves for. There are more than a few hundred positions that one can try out. No man has ever said no to learning on the bed.“
BREATH
Nope again, we are not referring to the smell, but the breathing pattern. The way you breathe, the way you speak and whisper, the way you moan and scream -your man cares for these.
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